So. Here we are again. A distracted writer, a neglected blog. That’s my bad.
In the last 8 months (seriously…wow), I guess you could say I’ve been slightly busy. Last fall, I was working full time and going to school full time, which meant there was definitely no room in my life for recreational writing. Hell, I was barely getting enough sleep at the time. The good news is that I actually managed to finish school after 5 years and finally managed to obtain my degree! Getting a B.A. in Psychology with a Minor in Criminal Justice never felt so good.
What I wasn’t prepared for, however, was the reality of how little that piece of paper was going to affect me once it was all said and done. Do I feel more accomplished after having fought my way through two universities, two state moves, a break-up, and a full time job just to add B.A. in Psychology to my resume? Well, that’s a given. I never thought it would happen in the first place. But I have to be honest – life after college just isn’t what I thought it would be.
It should be known that I have a tendency to live in somewhat of an unrealistic, romanticized, fantasy world. I have grandiose ideas of life and what it will be like “when I get older”. But what I’m finding is that I get older every day and the world I live in seems to change very little.
Even after hearing horror stories of how difficult it has been for others I know to get a job in their field after finishing college, I was overly optimistic about my chances to find a mental health job. After all, I’m a hard worker, I’m efficient, I learn quickly, I work well with people, etc. Not surprisingly, after applying to between 50-100 mental health jobs all over the city of Denver and state of Colorado, only one place was interested in me. One.
It pains me to admit to my naivete, but I honestly believed I would hear from at least half of those places. But, as countless others have discovered before me, it is damn near impossible to find a job in the field you desire without any experience. And the craziest part is that no one is willing to give you any experience. It’s the dumbest, most twisted logic I’ve ever heard of, but it’s reality. It’s what thousands of college graduates face every December and every May when they finish their degrees.
I honestly don’t mean this to sound overly complainy. Truly. It’s just difficult not to marvel over the irony of obtaining a college degree to get a job only to find that it is damn near impossible to get the job you studied for.
However, something much more interesting has happened since I got my degree and went on the somewhat fruitless job hunt for a job in mental health. Not only did I get a job in mental health that is a perfect fit for my lifestyle at the moment, but I found something else that I happen to be really passionate about – retail.
Truthfully, I never, ever thought I would say something like that. Who the hell is passionate about retail? Who is passionate about overpriced clothes, sale-hungry consumers, inconsistent hours, and next to no time off? Well…I am.
The funny thing is that every since I took a promotion into management, I’ve questioned every single day whether or not I made the right choice. Am I enough of a leader for this role? How do I expect anyone to take me seriously at the ripe old age of 26? What can I contribute to this store that assures them that I’m a worthwhile investment?
I’ve learned a lot at that job over the last year. I’ve learned that, in addition to being in a leadership position, I am incredibly passionate about the numbers side of retail. The inventory management, the design aspect, the visual merchandising, ways to increase sell-through, ways to maximize sales in order to reach sales plans and bonuses every month. With all the negative aspects that come along with retail, there are so many positives that I’ve grown to love and understand that make me question whether or not I ever even want to leave retail.
I’ve always entertained the possibility of going to grad school. Something I’ve really missed in the last five months has been learning and writing and keeping my brain active. I would still love to go to grad school someday…but perhaps instead of pursuing social work or counseling, I might want to pursue business school. I want to delve deeper into the inner workings of the business world and economics and leadership. Maybe.
I realize that this blog has a mere handful of followers and I realize that these posts that I write spend the majority of their time in the ether of the internet, not read or paid attention to by anyone. But for those of you that do happen to take the time to read this, thank you. I got bit really hard by the writing bug today and I just had to get all that stuff out.
With every blog I’ve written, I make futile promises to keep up with them. I’ve realized that puts an undue amount of pressure on myself when I don’t have the time to bring those promises to fruition. So…until next time…